Collars – Connection, Ownership, and Sensual Submission

What Are Collars Used For in BDSM?

A collar in BDSM represents ownership, submission, and commitment between partners. It can be worn as a visual symbol of a D/s dynamic (Dominant/submissive) or used functionally during scenes to connect leashes, restraints, or other bondage gear.

Some wear collars 24/7 as a sign of ongoing submission, while others use them for specific scenes, roleplay, or aesthetic flair. They’re a blend of symbolism, style, and sensuality. For many, wearing a collar creates a psychological shift—stepping into a role or mindset that invites arousal, control, and focus.

Why Choose a Collar from Lovedo?

1. Comfortable & Adjustable Fit

Soft interiors, adjustable buckles or snaps, and flexible sizing options for all-day or scene-specific wear. Padding, breathability, and width are also considered for lasting comfort.

2. Stylish Designs

Choose from sleek leather, velvet, vegan options, or fetish-inspired styles with studs, rings, and hardware. We also offer collars adorned with crystals, bows, lace, or even integrated tech for playful or elegant vibes.

3. Functional Features

Many collars include D-rings for attaching leashes, chains, tags, or cuffs—great for bondage, training, or roleplay. Some feature locking buckles, magnetic clasps, or matching accessories.

4. Made for All Genders & Roles

Whether you're a submissive, pet, Dom, switch, or simply experimenting, we offer collars to suit every dynamic and style. There’s no “one look” for submission—your collar should reflect your role and personality.

5. Body-Safe Materials

From leather to hypoallergenic metal to silicone, our collars are crafted for comfort, style, and safe skin contact. We prioritize quality materials that won’t chafe, discolor, or irritate even with extended use.

Types of Collars at Lovedo

• Day Collars – Discreet and elegant designs for subtle everyday wear. Often resemble necklaces or chokers.
• Play Collars – Bolder styles with D-rings, chains, and hardware for use during scenes. Designed to make a visual and functional statement.
• Pet Play Collars – Soft, cute, and colourful—perfect for roleplay and affectionate submission. Some come with matching leashes or tags.
• Bondage Collars – Heavy-duty and secure for serious restraint and control. Ideal for advanced play and high-intensity scenes.
• Custom or Taggable Collars – Personalise with names, roles, or pet tags for added significance. A unique way to show your devotion or role.

Who Are Collars For?

Collars are for anyone exploring:

• Power exchange dynamics (D/s, M/s)
• Pet play and roleplay scenarios
• Long-term or lifestyle BDSM relationships
• Symbolic or aesthetic kink fashion
• Erotic expression and bondage scenes

They’re also a powerful visual symbol—transforming the wearer's posture, mood, and intention. Whether you're new to the scene or fully immersed in the lifestyle, collars offer a tangible symbol of belonging and intention. For many, the act of collaring or being collared is deeply emotional and erotic.

How to Use a Collar Safely & Respectfully

• Discuss Meaning First – A collar can be symbolic, functional, or both. Align on its purpose with your partner.
• Establish Consent – Like all BDSM gear, collaring should be consensual and mutually desired. Don’t surprise-collar someone without prior discussion.
• Choose the Right Fit – Not too tight, not too loose—measure the neck and leave room for two fingers. Comfort is key.
• Introduce Gradually – Start with short-term wear during scenes before moving to long-term use. This helps build trust and adapt to physical and emotional sensations.
• Respect the Ritual – For many, collaring is a sacred or emotional act—treat it with care and mutual reverence. Some couples include vows, ceremonies, or collaring anniversaries as part of their D/s relationship.

Scene Ideas and Daily Wear Tips

• Leash Play – Attach a leash and guide your partner through a scene.
• Public Wear – Choose a subtle collar to wear out as a private symbol between you and your Dom/sub.
• Choker Swap – Switch between casual chokers and scene collars for different moods.
• Matching Sets – Pair collars with cuffs, harnesses, or lingerie for a complete look.
• Reward/Discipline Tool – Use collaring as a ritual of reward or a tool of discipline in your dynamic.

Explore Your Dynamic with Lovedo’s Collars

A collar can be playful or profound, temporary or eternal, purely aesthetic or deeply symbolic. Whatever it means to you, Lovedo’s range of high-quality, beautifully crafted collars lets you explore intimacy and submission in style.

Shop our collection today and discover the perfect piece to express your bond, your kink, or your desire to belong. Whether it’s your first collar or your forever one, we’re here to help you make it meaningful.