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Pleasure shouldn’t feel confusing, awkward, or overwhelming - but with so many toys, styles, and opinions out there, it often does.
That’s why we created this guides hub: a place to help you choose the right toys, use them with confidence, and enjoy better experiences whether you’re brand new, shopping for a partner, or just ready to upgrade what you already own.
From first-time tips to couples play, anal advice, lube, and toy care, you’ll find honest, practical guidance here written by real people who actually use this stuff.
Not Sure Where to Begin?
If you’re feeling unsure, you’re not alone — and you don’t need to have it all figured out before you start. If you’re new to toys or just want gentle, no-pressure guidance, the Beginner-Friendly Starts section is a great place to begin. If you already know what you enjoy, you can jump straight into Buying Guides or Pleasure Techniques to get more from your next toy.
There’s no “right” level of experience here. Whether you’re curious, confident, or somewhere in between, these guides are designed to support you without judgement — helping pleasure feel easier, not awkward.
Helpful Answers to Common Questions
This hub brings together practical, honest advice on everything from choosing your first toy to exploring new sensations with confidence. Whether you’re deciding between different toy styles, wondering which lube works best, or looking for ways to enjoy play with a partner, these guides are here to help you make informed, comfortable choices — at your own pace.
What should I look for when buying my first toy?
A good first toy should feel comfortable, simple to use, and suited to what excites you. Many people start with a straightforward vibrator made from soft, body-safe silicone, while others may prefer external stimulation, suction toys, or something designed for couples.
How much lube should I use, and which type is best?
Lube improves comfort and sensation for almost everyone. Water-based lube is a versatile choice that works with most toys, while thicker formulas can be especially helpful for anal play. Start with a small amount and add more as needed — there’s no such thing as “too much” when it comes to comfort.
Are sex toys safe for beginners?
Yes — when chosen and used properly. Follow the manufacturer’s instructions, use the right type of lube, go slowly, and clean your toys before and after use. Taking your time and listening to your body is key to enjoyable, confidence-building experiences.
Find the Right Guide for You
Everyone’s pleasure journey looks different. Some people want simple reassurance before buying their first toy, while others are focused on improving what they already enjoy or exploring something new with a partner.
That’s why our guides cover a wide range of topics — from beginner advice and buying tips to couples play, anal comfort, lube choices, and pleasure techniques. You don’t need to read everything. Just choose what feels relevant to you right now and explore at a pace that feels good.
There’s no rush, no pressure, and no “right way” to explore pleasure. These guides are here to help you feel informed, confident, and comfortable — whatever stage you’re at.