Beginner Guides

Beginner Sex Toy Guides: Start Your Pleasure Journey with Confidence

New to sex toys? You’re in exactly the right place. Our Beginner Guides are here to take the pressure off and put the fun back into exploring your body and desires. Whether you're solo, partnered, or just curious, Lovedo makes it easy to get started without feeling overwhelmed or awkward.

From choosing your first vibrator to understanding the difference between silicone and ABS, we’ve put together straightforward, shame-free advice designed to help you explore safely, confidently, and at your own pace. No jargon. No judgment. Just real guidance from real people — including tips from our own experience as a couple-run shop.

We know the world of sex toys can feel like a maze at first, but with the right info, you’ll feel empowered to find exactly what turns you on. Our guides are packed with recommendations, how-tos, and beginner-friendly advice to help you make the best choices for your pleasure — whether you're into gentle external vibes, want to explore anal play, or just want to know what lube actually does (spoiler: it’s amazing).

So if you’re just starting out, relax. We’ve got your back — and your front. Browse the guides below and take your first steps toward better pleasure, more confidence, and sex that feels like it’s just for you.

10 May

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8 Sex Positions That Will Heat Things Up Tonight (With Pictures & Tips)

Let’s be honest — even the best sex can fall into a bit of a routine sometimes. You know what works, what gets you both off, and that’s great… but there’s something exciting about mixing it up and trying something new. That’s exactly what this guide is for. Whether you’re feeling flirty, deeply connected, or just a bit randy after a gl..

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03 May

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Thinking About Swinging? What to Know Before You Dive In

Thinking About Swinging? What to Know Before You Dive In If you’re even thinking about swinging, chances are you’ve already Googled a few things, had a conversation (or a curious thought), and maybe wondered, “Is this actually something people do?” The answer? Yes—more than you might think. And no, it’s not all wild parties and awkward partner swa..

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02 May

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A Closer Look at Prostate Play: How, Why, and Where to Start

Let’s get one thing straight: exploring prostate play isn’t weird, it isn’t “too out there,” and it definitely isn’t something to be ashamed of. In fact, more and more men—whether flying solo or enjoying it with a partner—are getting curious about what’s often called the male G-spot. And once they try it? Most wonder why they didn’t start sooner. ..

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29 Apr

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The Best Vibrators for Beginners (And How to Choose Yours)

The Best Vibrators for Beginners (And How to Choose Yours) Whether you’re completely new to sex toys or just curious about adding a little buzz to your solo or partnered play, choosing your first vibrator can feel like stepping into a whole new world. With hundreds of shapes, sizes, and styles out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed — or even a b..

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21 Apr

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What’s the Best Sex Toys for Beginners? A Friendly Guide to Starting Your Pleasure Journey

When you’re new to sex toys, it’s completely normal to feel a mix of curiosity, excitement, and maybe even a few nerves. With so many different types, materials, shapes, and features available, figuring out what to try first can feel a little overwhelming. But don’t worry — you’re not alone, and this guide is here to help.At Lovedo, we believe th..

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19 Apr

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How to Introduce Sex Toys into a Relationship (Without It Getting Awkward)

How to Introduce Sex Toys into a Relationship (Without It Getting Awkward)So, you’re in a relationship and things are going well — there’s trust, connection, and some solid bedroom chemistry. But maybe you’re curious about trying something new. Maybe you’ve been eyeing a toy or two on Lovedo. Maybe your partner's hinted at spicing things up. What..

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