Beginner Guides

Beginner Sex Toy Guides: Start Your Pleasure Journey with Confidence

New to sex toys? You’re in exactly the right place. Our Beginner Guides are here to take the pressure off and put the fun back into exploring your body and desires. Whether you're solo, partnered, or just curious, Lovedo makes it easy to get started without feeling overwhelmed or awkward.

From choosing your first vibrator to understanding the difference between silicone and ABS, we’ve put together straightforward, shame-free advice designed to help you explore safely, confidently, and at your own pace. No jargon. No judgment. Just real guidance from real people — including tips from our own experience as a couple-run shop.

We know the world of sex toys can feel like a maze at first, but with the right info, you’ll feel empowered to find exactly what turns you on. Our guides are packed with recommendations, how-tos, and beginner-friendly advice to help you make the best choices for your pleasure — whether you're into gentle external vibes, want to explore anal play, or just want to know what lube actually does (spoiler: it’s amazing).

So if you’re just starting out, relax. We’ve got your back — and your front. Browse the guides below and take your first steps toward better pleasure, more confidence, and sex that feels like it’s just for you.

14 Jun

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Slip into Pleasure: The Only Lube Guide You’ll Ever Need

When it comes to better sex, lube is often the most powerful tool nobody talks about enough. It’s simple, affordable, and completely transforms how things feel — whether you're enjoying a slow, sensual massage, using toys, having penetrative sex, or exploring kinkier play. The right lube doesn’t just reduce friction. It enhances sensation, boosts ..

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09 Jun

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Tied Up & Turned On: A Beginner’s Guide to Bondage

Bondage might sound intense if you’re new to it, but for us, it started with simple curiosity. A pair of cuffs here, a blindfold there — nothing serious, just playful fun. But the more we explored, the more we realised it wasn’t just about sex. It was about trust. About surrender. About creating something together that felt raw, exciting, and dee..

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08 Jun

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Clit Confessions 101: 5 Things Every Woman Wishes Her Partner Knew

We’re not sexperts. We’re just a couple who’ve had our fair share of “oops, wrong spot” moments — and a hell of a lot of laughs figuring things out along the way. One thing we’ve learned (the hard way)? The clit isn’t some mythical red button you just jab at and hope for the best. And no — fast and furious isn’t always the vibe. Truth is, the..

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05 Jun

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How to Give a Yoni Massage: A Beginner’s Guide to Intimacy and Pleasure.

I’m not a tantric master or a trained therapist. I’m just a husband who wanted to learn how to connect with his wife — not just in the obvious ways, but on a deeper level. Over the years, I’ve learned that real pleasure doesn’t come from rushing or ticking boxes. It comes from patience, connection, and giving her space to fully feel every part of h..

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26 May

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How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blow Job (Straight-Talking, Real Advice)

Let’s be honest—blow jobs get talked about everywhere, but no one ever really tells you the truth. You hear the lads in the pub bragging like it’s nothing, or you watch porn and think, “That looks easy enough.” But when you’re actually in the moment, it’s a different story. There’s pressure—pressure to look good, to know what you’re doing, to some..

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19 May

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The Real Guide to Anal Sex (From the Bedroom, Not the Textbook)

Thinking about trying anal sex but not sure where to start — or even how to bring it up with your partner? You’re not alone. For something so talked about, it’s still wrapped in confusion, myths, and mixed advice.Whether you’re just curious, a bit nervous, or you’ve tried it before and want to get more from it, this guide is here to help. Written..

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10 May

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8 Sex Positions That Will Heat Things Up Tonight (With Pictures & Tips)

Let’s be honest — even the best sex can fall into a bit of a routine sometimes. You know what works, what gets you both off, and that’s great… but there’s something exciting about mixing it up and trying something new. That’s exactly what this guide is for. Whether you’re feeling flirty, deeply connected, or just a bit randy after a gl..

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03 May

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Thinking About Swinging? What to Know Before You Dive In

Thinking About Swinging? What to Know Before You Dive In If you’re even thinking about swinging, chances are you’ve already Googled a few things, had a conversation (or a curious thought), and maybe wondered, “Is this actually something people do?” The answer? Yes—more than you might think. And no, it’s not all wild parties and awkward partner swa..

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02 May

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A Closer Look at Prostate Play: How, Why, and Where to Start

Let’s get one thing straight: exploring prostate play isn’t weird, it isn’t “too out there,” and it definitely isn’t something to be ashamed of. In fact, more and more men—whether flying solo or enjoying it with a partner—are getting curious about what’s often called the male G-spot. And once they try it? Most wonder why they didn’t start sooner. ..

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29 Apr

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The Best Vibrators for Beginners (And How to Choose Yours)

The Best Vibrators for Beginners (And How to Choose Yours) Whether you’re completely new to sex toys or just curious about adding a little buzz to your solo or partnered play, choosing your first vibrator can feel like stepping into a whole new world. With hundreds of shapes, sizes, and styles out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed — or even a b..

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