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Why Unihorn Caught Our AttentionWhen you’ve been around pleasure products for a long time, you get used to seeing the same styles again and again. So when we were sent a selection of Unihorn toys to try, I wasn’t expecting to be surprised. But I was. What caught my attention wasn’t just how they looked, but how they made me feel. They felt fun...

If you are new to sex toys and feeling unsure where to begin, you are not alone. Many people feel curious long before they feel confident, and that hesitation is completely normal. First-time buyers often worry about choosing the wrong thing, feeling awkward, or buying something that turns out to be too much. These concerns stop more people from s..

It’s been a year since that New Year’s Eve at Pleasures in Kent. What started as a mix of nerves, curiosity, and not knowing what to expect became something far more meaningful. Looking back, it wasn’t the setting or the excitement that stayed with us, but the way we approached it together and what it revealed about our relationship.That first..

After a certain amount of time together, people stop asking how you’re still having sex and quietly assume you’re not.Life gets busy. Work takes over. Kids, routines, and tired evenings creep in. Not because the desire disappears, but because intimacy needs space, and space is usually the first thing to get squeezed out.I’ve been with Sophie ..

When it comes to better sex, lube is often the most powerful tool nobody talks about enough. It’s simple, affordable, and completely transforms how things feel — whether you're enjoying a slow, sensual massage, using toys, having penetrative sex, or exploring kinkier play. The right lube doesn’t just reduce friction. It enhances sensation, boosts ..

There’s something undeniably thrilling about doing it somewhere you’re not supposed to. The rush of being caught. The challenge of keeping quiet. The naughtiness of it all. From secluded fields and train carriages to spas, saunas, and even swimming pool changing rooms (yep, we went there), me and Sophie have always been drawn to the excitement of ..

We’re a married couple — I’m 42, Sophie’s 38 — with two kids, 23 years together, and a lot of love (and lust) still going strong. This blog shares what happened the first time we walked into a sex club — and how, after multiple visits and seven club nights later, it’s completely changed the way we connect.Most people fantasise about wild sex, new..

Bondage might sound intense if you’re new to it, but for us, it started with simple curiosity. A pair of cuffs here, a blindfold there — nothing serious, just playful fun. But the more we explored, the more we realised it wasn’t just about sex. It was about trust. About surrender. About creating something together that felt raw, exciting, and dee..

We’re not sexperts. We’re just a couple who’ve had our fair share of “oops, wrong spot” moments — and a hell of a lot of laughs figuring things out along the way. One thing we’ve learned (the hard way)? The clit isn’t some mythical red button you just jab at and hope for the best. And no — fast and furious isn’t always the vibe.  Truth is, the..

I’m not a tantric master or a trained therapist. I’m just a husband who wanted to learn how to connect with his wife — not just in the obvious ways, but on a deeper level. Over the years, I’ve learned that real pleasure doesn’t come from rushing or ticking boxes. It comes from patience, connection, and giving her space to fully feel every part of h..