Intimate Advice

Sex & Relationship Advice – Honest, Helpful, and Unfiltered

Welcome to the Advice hub at Lovedo – your go-to space for real talk about intimacy, sex, relationships, and self-pleasure. Whether you're exploring something new, overcoming a challenge, or simply looking to spice things up, we've got expert tips and honest guides to support every step of your journey.

Our sex and relationship advice covers everything from bedroom confidence to understanding your partner better. We talk about toys, techniques, communication, and kink – no judgement, no taboo. Just open, empowering content to help you enjoy a more fulfilling sex life, however that looks for you.

We believe pleasure should be fun, safe, and inclusive. That’s why our articles are written for all genders, orientations, and experience levels. Whether you’re flying solo or partnered up, discovering your body or diving into BDSM – the Lovedo Advice section is your safe space to learn, explore, and feel seen.

So grab a brew (or a glass of wine), and get stuck into our latest posts. From tips on how to introduce toys into your relationship, to confidence-boosting ideas and FAQs, we’re here to help you feel more informed, empowered, and turned on.

Let’s talk sex – the honest way.

08 Jun

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Clit Confessions 101: 5 Things Every Woman Wishes Her Partner Knew

We’re not sexperts. We’re just a couple who’ve had our fair share of “oops, wrong spot” moments — and a hell of a lot of laughs figuring things out along the way. One thing we’ve learned (the hard way)? The clit isn’t some mythical red button you just jab at and hope for the best. And no — fast and furious isn’t always the vibe. Truth is, the..

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26 May

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How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blow Job (Straight-Talking, Real Advice)

Let’s be honest—blow jobs get talked about everywhere, but no one ever really tells you the truth. You hear the lads in the pub bragging like it’s nothing, or you watch porn and think, “That looks easy enough.” But when you’re actually in the moment, it’s a different story. There’s pressure—pressure to look good, to know what you’re doing, to some..

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21 May

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Understanding Your Body: A Guide to Erogenous Zones

Sometimes we forget just how much our bodies are capable of — how much pleasure is hiding in places we barely think about. It's not always about the obvious bits. In fact, half the fun is discovering what really makes you — or your partner — react. That’s where erogenous zones come in.I wanted to write this because, honestly, most of us grow up..

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19 May

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The Real Guide to Anal Sex (From the Bedroom, Not the Textbook)

Thinking about trying anal sex but not sure where to start — or even how to bring it up with your partner? You’re not alone. For something so talked about, it’s still wrapped in confusion, myths, and mixed advice.Whether you’re just curious, a bit nervous, or you’ve tried it before and want to get more from it, this guide is here to help. Written..

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18 May

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How to Make a Woman Squirt (If She Wants To)

We weren’t even sure this was real at first. You hear the word “squirting” and think of porn scenes or stories that sound half made up. I used to wonder if it was just a myth — or something only some women could do. For me, it hadn’t happened… until one day it did.It caught us both by surprise. One minute we were just playing around with the Sat..

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05 May

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Navigating Long-Distance Intimacy: Tools and Tips for Staying Connected

Being apart from someone you love — whether it’s a few weeks or a few months — doesn’t mean your connection has to suffer. In fact, long-distance relationships can deepen emotional intimacy and build trust like few others can. But let’s face it — physical touch, shared experiences, and spontaneous moments are hard to replace.That’s where a little..

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03 May

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Thinking About Swinging? What to Know Before You Dive In

Thinking About Swinging? What to Know Before You Dive In If you’re even thinking about swinging, chances are you’ve already Googled a few things, had a conversation (or a curious thought), and maybe wondered, “Is this actually something people do?” The answer? Yes—more than you might think. And no, it’s not all wild parties and awkward partner swa..

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02 May

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A Closer Look at Prostate Play: How, Why, and Where to Start

Let’s get one thing straight: exploring prostate play isn’t weird, it isn’t “too out there,” and it definitely isn’t something to be ashamed of. In fact, more and more men—whether flying solo or enjoying it with a partner—are getting curious about what’s often called the male G-spot. And once they try it? Most wonder why they didn’t start sooner. ..

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23 Apr

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The Science Behind Orgasms: Understanding Your Body

Orgasms are often described as the pinnacle of sexual pleasure, but beyond the thrill and intense sensations, there's a fascinating interplay of biology, psychology, and chemistry at work. Understanding the science behind orgasms not only deepens your appreciation of your body's capabilities but can also enhance your sexual experiences. In this gui..

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21 Apr

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What’s the Best Sex Toys for Beginners? A Friendly Guide to Starting Your Pleasure Journey

When you’re new to sex toys, it’s completely normal to feel a mix of curiosity, excitement, and maybe even a few nerves. With so many different types, materials, shapes, and features available, figuring out what to try first can feel a little overwhelming. But don’t worry — you’re not alone, and this guide is here to help.At Lovedo, we believe th..

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