Masturbators — Real Pleasure, Just How You Like It

What Is a Masturbator?

A masturbator is a male sex toy designed to provide enhanced stimulation to the penis. Unlike manual stimulation alone, masturbators offer consistent sensation through internal textures, controlled pressure, and optional features such as vibration or suction.

They range from soft, flexible sleeves to more advanced toys designed for hands-free or automated use. Some focus on realism, while others prioritise variety and sensation. There’s no “best” style — only what feels right for you.

Why Men Choose Masturbators

Many men choose masturbators because they offer more control and consistency than hands alone. They allow you to explore rhythm, pressure, and sensation in ways that can feel more immersive and satisfying.

Masturbators can support edging, stamina exploration, and greater awareness of arousal patterns. They’re also discreet, easy to store, and simple to clean — making them a practical part of both pleasure and self-care routines.

Our Most Popular Masturbator Styles

Masturbators come in a wide range of styles, each designed to deliver a slightly different experience. Choosing the right one isn’t about chasing the most advanced features — it’s about finding a toy that feels comfortable, intuitive, and enjoyable for your body and preferences.

Below, we break down the most popular types of masturbators and what makes each one appealing, so you can explore with confidence rather than guesswork.

Real-Feel Sleeves

Real-feel sleeves are among the most popular masturbators, especially for first-time buyers. Made from soft, flexible materials, they’re designed to enhance sensation through internal textures rather than complex mechanics.

Some sleeves focus on lifelike feel, while others use patterned interiors to deliver varied stimulation. Their simplicity makes them easy to use, easy to clean, and ideal for relaxed, pressure-free exploration.

Pocket Strokers

Pocket strokers are compact, discreet, and straightforward. They’re a great option if you’re looking for something portable or prefer a more subtle introduction to sex toys.

Despite their size, many pocket strokers offer surprisingly effective stimulation thanks to carefully designed internal textures. They’re also easy to store and quick to clean, making them a popular everyday choice.

Suction Masturbators

Suction masturbators introduce gentle pressure alongside internal stimulation, creating a rhythmic sensation that many users find immersive and satisfying.

These toys often allow suction intensity to be adjusted, which means you can start lightly and explore gradually. They’re best enjoyed slowly, giving your body time to respond without rushing the experience.

Vibrating Masturbators

Vibrating masturbators add another layer of sensation by combining internal texture with adjustable vibration. This allows for greater variety and control, whether you prefer subtle background stimulation or stronger pulses.

Many vibrating masturbators are rechargeable and designed with intuitive controls, making them suitable for beginners as well as more experienced users looking to explore different intensities.

Thrusting & Automated Masturbators

Thrusting and automated masturbators use motorised movement to create hands-free stimulation. These designs are often chosen by users who already feel confident with sex toys and are curious about more immersive experiences.

While more advanced, these toys still benefit from a slow, relaxed approach. Familiarising yourself with settings and movement patterns helps ensure comfort and enjoyment.

Waterproof Masturbators

Waterproof masturbators are designed for easy cleaning and flexible use, including in the shower or bath. Many people appreciate the convenience and discretion these designs offer.

Being fully waterproof also makes regular care simpler, which helps maintain hygiene and prolong the life of your toy.

Choosing the Right Masturbator for You

If you’re unsure where to start, focus on comfort rather than complexity. Consider how much stimulation you enjoy, whether you prefer manual control or hands-free options, and how important ease of cleaning and storage is to you.

Starting with a simpler design often leads to the most satisfying experiences. As confidence grows, you may find yourself naturally curious about other styles — but there’s no rush and no expectation.

How to Use a Masturbator Comfortably

Using a masturbator should feel relaxed and intentional. Applying a generous amount of water-based lubricant inside the toy and on yourself improves comfort and allows textures to work as intended.

Begin slowly and take time to explore pressure, rhythm, or vibration settings if applicable. Pleasure isn’t about speed — it’s about awareness and enjoyment.

After use, clean the toy with warm water and a toy-safe cleaner, allow it to dry fully, and store it somewhere clean and discreet.

Materials, Safety & Care

All masturbators at Lovedo are selected with body-safe materials and long-term comfort in mind. We prioritise non-porous materials that are gentle on the skin and easy to maintain.

Proper cleaning and storage protect both your body and your investment, helping ensure every experience remains comfortable and hygienic.

Masturbators & Partnered Exploration

Although primarily designed for solo pleasure, masturbators can also be introduced into partnered intimacy. Some couples use them during foreplay, shared exploration, or long-distance play as a way to stay connected.

If you’re interested in shared experiences, you may also want to explore our Couples Sex Toys collection, which includes toys designed specifically for connection and mutual pleasure.

Privacy, Discretion & Trusted UK Delivery

We understand that shopping for intimate products is personal. Every order from Lovedo is shipped in plain, discreet packaging, with anonymous billing and secure checkout.

As a UK-based, family-run business, we choose products carefully and support our customers with honest guidance — without judgement or pressure.

Explore Solo Pleasure Your Way

Masturbators offer a flexible, confidence-building way to explore pleasure on your own terms. Whether you’re just starting out or refining what you already enjoy, there’s no right or wrong way to use them.

Browse our collection of masturbators and discover real pleasure — comfortably, confidently, and without awkwardness.