Sex Toy Trends & Tips Lovedo Blog - Intimacy

After more than twenty years together, my wife and I have learned that intimacy doesn’t stay exciting by accident. It stays exciting because you stay curious about each other and about how pleasure actually works.Over the years we’ve explored a lot together. Sometimes it starts with a quiet conversation in bed, sometimes it comes from something w..

If you have ever searched for how to use a cock ring, you are not alone. It is one of the most common beginner questions in the world of sex toys, especially for couples who want something simple, non-intimidating, and genuinely effective.A cock ring is designed to sit comfortably at the base of the penis, helping to maintain firmness, enhanc..

Calm, honest context around a date that often gets misunderstood.If you have ever heard of Steak and Blowjob Day and felt unsure how to react, you are not alone. For some people it sounds playful or tongue in cheek. For others, it feels uncomfortable, outdated, or one sided.This guide exists to explain where the idea came from, why it still get..

Mental health doesn’t stay in one neat corner of life. It doesn’t switch off just because you want to feel close, or because you love someone deeply, or because everything looks fine from the outside. It moves through your body and into your everyday life. It affects how safe you feel, how present you can be, and how intimacy is experienced.For a..

Intimacy is one of those things that most couples assume should come naturally. At the start, it often does. You do not have to think about it, plan it, or protect it. It is just there, woven into everyday life without effort.What no one really prepares you for is how much intimacy changes over time.Long-term relationships do not usually lose i..

Anal play is one of those topics that a lot of people think about long before they ever talk about it. It sits quietly in the background as a question, a curiosity, or sometimes a worry. For some, it’s something they’ve wondered about for years but never felt comfortable raising. For others, it’s come up more recently through a partner, something t..

It’s been a year since that New Year’s Eve at Pleasures in Kent. What started as a mix of nerves, curiosity, and not knowing what to expect became something far more meaningful. Looking back, it wasn’t the setting or the excitement that stayed with us, but the way we approached it together and what it revealed about our relationship.That first..

After a certain amount of time together, people stop asking how you’re still having sex and quietly assume you’re not.Life gets busy. Work takes over. Kids, routines, and tired evenings creep in. Not because the desire disappears, but because intimacy needs space, and space is usually the first thing to get squeezed out.I’ve been with Sophie ..

There’s something undeniably thrilling about doing it somewhere you’re not supposed to. The rush of being caught. The challenge of keeping quiet. The naughtiness of it all. From secluded fields and train carriages to spas, saunas, and even swimming pool changing rooms (yep, we went there), me and Sophie have always been drawn to the excitement of ..

Bondage might sound intense if you’re new to it, but for us, it started with simple curiosity. A pair of cuffs here, a blindfold there — nothing serious, just playful fun. But the more we explored, the more we realised it wasn’t just about sex. It was about trust. About surrender. About creating something together that felt raw, exciting, and dee..